A Plus Size Wedding Guest Abroad & Spoonie Survival Tips

 

Plus Size Wedding Guest Abroad Katie Piper for Want That Trend Plus Size Dress

 

In case I haven’t gone on about it quite enough lately and you haven’t seen me post about it: me and my fiancé took a trip to Porto a couple of weeks ago and the main reason for heading over was for the wedding of one of his good friends. Due to the usually astronomical costs involved in that sort of thing, I haven’t been able to attend a wedding outside of the UK before, so it was extra exciting that we were able to make it work and go to a lovely city for an even lovelier wedding.

 

Now, as much as I thrive in the sunshine I don’t typically cope very well any more in reeeeeally hot weather – anything over about 25ºC (77ºF) causes a fibro flare up for me, especially if it’s humid too – and the forecast hinted at it reaching 30ºC (86ºC) in Porto for the week we were there. I knew that I needed to assemble some kind of survival kit to get me through not only the week, but the wedding day too. We were being picked up at 10:30 and the whole day of festivities ran right through until the early hours.

 

So, here’s what I put in my plus size wedding guest abroad survival kit, and I’ve added some advice for my fellow spoonie babes too!

 

 Want That Trend Katie Piper Green Belted Pleated Tie Dress

 

 A Plus Size Wedding Guest Abroad

 

Outfit

 

First on the list to sort out was a wedding guest outfit that was going to not only look great and be appropriate for the Catholic ceremony, but would keep me cool and comfortable too.

 

I came across this lovely olive green pleated dress from the Katie Piper collection for Want That Trend, which ticked all the boxes for me. I love that it’s such a classic shape, with a gorgeous plisse texture and the material is pretty light – not to mention it’s an absolute steal at just £28.00. This is the first piece I’ve ever tried from the Want That Trend range, but since I was made aware of the brand at last years Curve Fashion Festival I was super keen to give them a try… and I’m very pleased that I did.

 

Katie Piper Green Belted Pleated Tie Dress Want That Trend Plus Size

 

In the description of this dress on the Want That Trend website it’s listed as being true to size, which I would definitely agree with to a point, but I’d even go a little further by saying it’s on the generous side. I went for my usual size, and it affords a very roomy fit which I’d say for this style of dress is ideal. Plus, as it turned out, wearing something with a bit of extra room to accommodate my belly after all the delicious food we were served up at this particular wedding was an especially good choice!

 

The neckline is oversized, I chose to wear it off one shoulder, and the belt it comes with is long enough to wrap around the waist twice and then tie, which is a detail so often overlooked – I’m sick of buying plus size dresses which for some strange reason come with straight size belt attached!

 

The one downside to this dress is that all of the edges are raw. The hem, neckline and sleeves are not hemmed – due to the nature of the material I wouldn’t have imagined that this will cause fraying or runs, but it struck me as a little unusual.

 

Plus Size Picks Perfect For A Summer Wedding

As I usually do, I went with gold accessories and I feel like they really set off the warm toned olive green of the dress well. The gold ruffle clutch bag, which has now sold out, was from ASOS and has been so useful this summer so far – I’ve taken it out with me so many times as it seems to be just the right size for the rubbish I cart about. The flat crossover sandals are from Primark, and although they are not technically wide fit, I’ve found them to be more than accommodating for my wide feet and extremely comfortable.

 

Plus Size Wedding Guest Abroad Shoes

 

Comfy Shoes

 

This brings me on to the second item in my survival kit: an extra pair of comfy shoes. On the day of the wedding itself, I was struggling with pain, which is why I didn’t manage to get photographs of the outfit then – these pictures were taken when we got home. By around 7pm on the day of the wedding I had switched the gold shoes for a pair of super comfy trainers that I’d brought along ‘just in case’ and I’m so glad I did, as I really needed them. The venue was BEAUTIFUL, but was spread across multiple levels which absolutely did me in.

 

Comfy But Beautiful Wide Fit Wonders

 

Want That Trend Katie Piper Green Belted Pleated Tie Dress Plus Size Wedding Guest Outfit for Warm Weather

 

Chub Rub Shorts

 

Next up are a good quality pair of anti-chafing shorts*, which are often affectionately named ‘chub rub shorts’. I’m going to level with you here: I hated the idea of ever having to wear something like this in my life ever. I’m staunchly anti-shapewear because I hate the stifling feeling of being restricted, so I had never tried them out until just before this holiday when I was sent some to try out by Big Tights (read my full review of them here).

 

Well they’re a revelation! For a long day in the heat, at an event where moving around is mandatory and there is a lot of standing up then sitting down, the ones I wore saw me proud for the full day. With everything else that was hurting that day, I was extremely happy to not have to add chub rub to my list of aches and pains.

 

Medication / Painkillers

 

I know, this sounds obvious: but don’t forget your meds! Because I completely forgot to bring mine in the rush to leave the hotel on time, and it sucked. Even if you don’t take regular or daily medications, pop your painkillers and a bottle of water in your survival kit – which for me was just an extra tote bag that my partner carried between venues.

 

Mobility Aids

 

I appreciate that this is not optional for so many with chronic illnesses, but if you are an occasional user of mobility aids as I am – I rely on a stick to walk sometimes – regardless of whether you feel you can cope without it when you set out, take it anyway. Whilst a large portion of the day at a wedding will be spent sat down, there are other factors that you can’t control, for me it was all the stairs at the venue.

 

Freshen Up / Cool Down

 

By their very nature, most weddings abroad are going to be hot hot hot. And if you’re anything like me, as your body temperature rises so does your pain levels. Chuck some deodorant, cooling spray, fans, floppy hats… literally whatever you need to have to regulate your temperature. Being able to freshen up and cool down when needed on a long, warm day is a must.

 

 

 Katie Piper Green Belted Pleated Tie Dress Plus Size Wedding Guest Abroad Outfit

 

Recognise Your Limitations

 

This tip is one that I need to acknowledge more myself, to be honest. I’m still coming to terms with my new set of limitations and will often put myself in pain and discomfort so as to not become the centre of attention and not ‘make a fuss’. If this is something you’re doing too then, we’ve gotta stop it. It’s simply a case of: if you need to tap out early, just do it.

 

For any big celebration or event, weddings especially, there is so much going on and so many people around that leaving an hour or two (or even four) before others isn’t going to be a big deal. Plus, it’s worth remembering that the people you are there to share the day with would much rather you stayed for as long as you were physically able to and had a great time, than try to overdo it and put yourself in physical discomfort.

 

Plus Size Wedding Guest Abroad Outfit Katie Piper Green Belted Pleated Tie Dress

 

So, there we have it, my plus size wedding guest abroad and spoonie survival guide. I sincerely hope it helps if you’ve been looking for tips for planning your own trip to a wedding abroad, to be honest a lot of these points will be applicable over here too if we see another heatwave like the one we have just had! Some of the above points may seem incredibly obvious, but I also know that preparing for a 16+ hour day out in the heat with a chronic illness can be such a massive performance that things can just slip your mind – I forgot my bloody painkillers after all!

 

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  • A really great post and you look absolutely incredible as always.

    • Thank you, I just wanted to make sure no one made the same ridiculous mistakes as I did – like leaving most actually useful stuff at the hotel!! x